Childcare, we see a real life scenario most often mothers and children together, that moment, we are looking with your eyes, Daddy, where are you? You work hard for busy? In drag to entertain and not to open the body? For online games while battling? If Hill does not say Father loves you? Hill, where are you? Is the distance of a landscape, the children often craned his neck and overlooks but not touch? Know as the father, under pressure, the cause of the burden of pressure in the body of two families; all know that social work hard is not easy, tired, too tired body mind. But since chosen as his father, the father must be a qualified, after all, parents need to pull parental Road children’s hands, the child will grow more healthy.
Father in child care on the road to play a pivotal role essential. Analysis of contemporary Chinese father in childcare in the progress of the past is of course improved, but there are too many missing:
1, will cause the first place.
Many fathers may think that to be a good father, would make more money, to provide the best conditions for children and education. Thus, it is often hard to see them work hard in the business world figure, have day jobs, evening entertainment, morning sleep. Let alone play with their children, and even have time to communicate little. Of course, the perfect reason to find yourself is: I am not better off just to make you so? Do you think I am easy?
Second, that accompany a child is a woman thing.
Father is not only a family playing the role of educators as a major in child education is not the role of smaller than the mother. Unfortunately, a lot of macho father, that education is the mother of the child to do, nothing to do with themselves, to educate children that have missed almost all the responsibility onto the child’s mother. So, from his conception to the child’s grown up, in their children’s education, it is hard to see his father’s shadow.
C, fresh in expressing their love.
Each father will love their children, it goes without saying. Mom would not mean the baby to the child that child, I love you, say N times is not too mushy not wearies, but few father to the children to express their inner love. Many father’s purpose is like love in their hearts, have said that the time to do things to children as role models, but they do not know my father, a gentle kiss, a thoughtful words, a warm hug to the kids with these touch the hearts of children to make life-long benefit. Also benefit the father-son heart communication, that is, why did many of the children prefer to listen to my chest and my mother the reason.
4, conceit, parents habits seriously.
While with the progress of society is gradually changing, brandishing sticks way of education has been away from many of my father are trying to get along with children equal, as far as possible the dual role of parents and friends to treat the child. But some habits in China for thousands of years pass on, coupled with many deep-rooted machismo father thought everything, really put a parent into the child mind is not easy.
5, rarely participate in their children’s activities.
I remember the first time and her husband to attend pottery nursery parents, the class more than 20 parents with her husband to father only two actors in the parents and the rest is her mother or grandmother’s generation of people. Our school organization to participate in the activities of the parents are mostly mothers, this is not one example, but the widespread social phenomenon. Related activities with the children if mother were only a matter within, and when the dad has nothing to do. Many fathers ask ourselves now, you take part in the child’s parents a few times? Communicate regularly with you child’s teacher? Know the child’s recent performance?
“Raising not taught at fault.” As for his father chose this role, it should be good to play this responsible role, worthy of his father’s title in this respect. If you have children, only know to make money to support him, rather than to carefully educate him, and that is the fault of the father is the father of dereliction of duty.
I wrote only under his own watch, hear and summed up the view, not all Chinese father is so, some may only have a certain lack of respect. Of course, there are many conscientious father, their own body and mind with their children in the care of the healthy growth of children as well as guides for! As I know in the blog where some of his father: Ah Dad, happy father, Du Dad, Dad beans, River Snow Dad, Keleba …… although they may not be very good, but they use their minds in accompany the child.
Network Excerpt:
Modern educational philosophy that, in the children grow up in the Guocheng, the father’s role no one can replace his father right child reach about tremendous of Ying Xiang Li, Zhe Zhong involved in their children’s intellectual influence, physical, emotional, personality Dengduofangmian, the children independent, strong, rational exploration of character play an important role in the training. Of course, if less exposure to the child and the father will be a “fatherly deficiency syndrome,” the child in weight, height, movement and other aspects of development will slow, and there, such as anxiety, low self-control and other affective disorders, in character will become weak, timid, withdrawn, low self-esteem, etc.. Can be said that his father will affect the child’s entire educational life. Father Education is not missing. Father and mother must take responsibility among children. In fact, the father of a competent child should be a good example, a child idol.
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